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Female Supremacy Articles - Page 13

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If the dominant woman is straight, her lover will adore her in the bedroom, but freak out if any of his buddies find out about her. Her sexuality is turned into a dirty shameful secret. She is sought after in bed, but reviled when the lights come up. A man will want her when no one else is watching, but ignore or condemn her when anyone else is. To say that this hypocrisy is insulting and maddening is an understatement. And it can be very difficult to find a man who is willing to treat her sexuality as anything other than a dirty little secret that he'd die if it got out. Sometimes living in a closet can be sadly necessary -- but being shoved there by someone who then expects to share that same sexuality with you is more than a tad bit annoying.