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At first the scene found him. When he was at a party a female professor chose him. She brought him home and tied him up, how bad he was for having these desires, even as she fulfilled them. For the first time he felt what he had only imagined, what he had read about in every S&M book he could find.

James, a father and manager, has a Type A personality--in-control, hard-working, intelligent, demanding. His intensity is evident on his face, in his posture, in his voice. But when he plays, his eyes drift and a peaceful energy flows through him as though he had injected heroin. With each addition of pain or restraint, he stiffens slightly, then falls into a deeper calm, a deeper peace, waiting to obey his mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner.

"Some people have to be tied up to be free," he says.

As James' experience illustrates, sadomasochism involves a highly unbalanced power relationship established through role-playing, bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained, and/or the infliction of pain. The essential component is not the pain or bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained itself, but rather the knowledge that one person has complete control over the other, deciding what that person will hear, do, taste, touch, smell and feel.

We hear about men pretending to be little girls, women being bound in a leather corset束腰 — a stiff garment that squeezes the waist, people screaming in pain with each strike of a flogger多尾鞭 — a whip with many tails or drip of hot wax. We hear about it because it is happening in bedrooms and dungeons across the country.