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But the couple are living proof that opposites attract. "Age is not an issue," he says. "I don't even think about it unless someone brings it up."

I was told 'enjoy it whilst it lasts'

CASE STUDY

Mary, 46, has been married to John, 36, for eight years. The couple live in Edinburgh.

How old were you when you met?

I was 36 and he was 26.

Did the age gap every worry you?

The age gap worried me... still worries me. It's a problem, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. But it's no more of a problem than the host of other issues facing couples. At the time I happened to be talking to my aunt (much married herself) and bemoaning the age gap, and she replied (quite cheerfully, despite the cynicism of the comment): "What are you worried about? All men eventually leave for younger women, so why not have the relationship anyway and enjoy it while it lasts?"

That kind of convinced me to continue regardless; that, and the fact that the boy in question seemed to have some very mature attitudes about things. And, there's always the fact that he was clearly completely crazy about me - never underestimate the persuasive powers of a smitten fellow.

Would you agree that younger men make for more active, vital partners?

No, I would not. I think it's an individual thing. I have friends pushing 60 who are as hot to trot (about life, not just love) as anyone else. No, any positives about the relationship are utterly unconnected to his age.