Female Supremacy Articles - Page 26

Screen 25 of 31

The awkwardness started with nights out. She would want to try the latest downtown bistro, but her boyfriends, who worked in creative jobs that paid less than hers, preferred diners.

They would say, ''Wow, you're so sophisticated,'' she recalled. A first look at her apartment, a smartly appointed studio in a full-service building in TriBeCa, would only reinforce the impression. ''They wouldn't want me to see their apartments,'' she said, because they lived in cramped surroundings in distant quadrants of Brooklyn or the Bronx.

One of them, she said, finally just came out and said it. ''Look,'' Ms. Hess recalled him saying, ''it makes me really uncomfortable that you make more money than me. I'm going to put that out on the table and try to get over it.''

But he never got over it, she said.

''The sad thing is that I really liked the guy,'' she said. ''If that hadn't been an issue with him, we'd probably still be dating.''

Ms. Hess's quandary is becoming more common for many young women. For the first time, women in their 20s who work full time in several American cities -- New York, Chicago, Boston and Minneapolis -- are earning higher wages than men in the same age range, according to a recent analysis of 2005 census data by Andrew Beveridge, a sociology professor at Queens College in New York.

For instance, the median income of women age 21 to 30 in New York who are employed full time was 17 percent higher than that of comparable men.