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1. Negotiation: The submissive顺从 — willing to obey should always discuss his or her needs, wants and limits with the dominant beforehand.

2. Having a safe word安全词 — a word that means stop: A memorable word should be chosen by the participants so that if physically or psychologically distressed, the word acts as a red light when called out to halt all activity.

3. Talking about what’s going to happen so that you know each other’s boundaries and what is being consented to.

4. Educating yourselves about certain S&M practices before trying them. Read a good book, surf the Internet or check out an S&M workshop in your area that can you get started safely. Qualified Professional Dominants can also help.

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."