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For women, the shift in economic power gives them new choices, not least among them the ability to reappraise their partner. And husbands, for their part, may find to their chagrin that being financially dependent isn't exactly a turn-on. According to psychologists (and divorce lawyers) who see couples struggling with such changes, many relationships follow the same pattern. First, the wife starts to lose respect for her husband, then he begins to feel emasculated.

There are, of course, happy exceptions: couples evolved enough to feel perfectly comfortable acknowledging that the wife is more driven to be the breadwinner, so it makes sense for everyone if he's giving junior his first feeding while she's off covering the presidential campaign.

"Kurt has never been someone who defines himself by his job," says Jami Floyd, a correspondent with ABC's 20/20, of her stay-at-home husband, Kurt Flehinger. "Nor does he care much what people think about him. He's not a Master of the Universe type. I am much more testosteronic. I'm much more driven, much more traditionally male."