Real Life Stories - Entries for April 2007

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I cried profusely when she left as I realized the treasure of a human being I let go! I finally decided she was right; I needed professional help. I went to see a therapist who specialized in relationship counseling. Her office was in my neighborhood. In addition to being a beautiful woman, she was very professional, patient with me and listened to me pour out my problems with genuine interest. Each session I'd tell her about one relationship. She wanted to know the details of everything we did and I recalled it all.

Then one session she told me she has a pretty good idea why I've been a failure in romance and that she wants to test her theory. She pulled out a file and started to ask me a series of questions. By the end of the session which ran overtime, she told me the reason for my unhappy life. She said "You subconsciously want to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service a woman and consciously refuse to do so!" What a powerful summary of the problem! I didn't know what "worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service a woman" meant but I immediately felt that was the truth.