Real Life Stories - Entries for April 2015

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But while you are dominating him through objectification, treating him as an “it” will stir your dominance and “he” will sense that coming from you which will in effect make him view himself as an “it”. That’s when objectification will stimulate his submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers and thus release a deeper sense of submission and inferiority within him, which will release a deeper sense of dominance and superiority within you.

Then you can take those feelings over into your day to day lives. He may not always be an “it” (that would be out of balance and unhealthy) but when he is a “he”, that feeling of being beneath you will influence him so he always knows his place within the marriage. It’s hard for a husband to argue with his wife about finances, doing chores and other family matters when he has just spent time being used a footstool or a shoe rack. Keep up the good work and stay in touch.

*** Note - More Real Life Experiences in each issue of "Predominant". And the Real Stories archive, which contains 100's of old stories that appeared on Elise's site from 2001-2005, can be accessed in the Predominant 2008 issue.