Real Life Stories - Negative FemDom女性支配 — female domination Experiences

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The goal with any D&S activity is to increase the man's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature, not to decrease it. It is the wife's responsibility to know her husband and his nature and to plan all D&S play accordingly. Unfortunately, Cassandra's husband experienced a very traumatic event and what was designed to be exciting for Cassandra has turned into a nightmare.

Cassandra, I feel for you and my heart goes out to you. Do not blame yourself, as you had no idea it would turn out this way. This event did not have the same traumatic effect on the other husbands so perhaps the other ladies knew that their husbands could handle this or perhaps they were just lucky. Regardless, your story should serve as a warning to all of us the importance of knowing what our husband's limits are, before we force them to engage in something contrary to their nature.

It is Ok to stretch a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man's limits but when you stretch them, it is important to take small steps. Also, realize that there will be certain lines that must not be crossed. Very few heterosexual men can handle forced homosexuality on an emotional level. It is up to each dominant wife to always keep the well being of her husband in mind when she allows others to play with him.