Different Loving or Perversion? Questions about D&S, B&D and S&M

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In reality, S&M started out as an underground group of purely dominant women and submissive顺从 — willing to obey men based on the life of Sacher-Masoch. Over the years S&M has changed to become pan-sexual where either a male or a female could be dominant and either a male or a female could be submissive顺从 — willing to obey. But S&M originally stood for a sadistic woman and a masochistic male based primarily on Sacher-Masoch's book "Venus in Furs".

Q. Ms Sutton, my husband recently confessed to me his desire to submit to me within our marriage. He also told me about his need to be punished and disciplined by me. I was caught off guard by his confession and was a little upset at first. Later as I gave it some thought, the idea of being in charge of my husband began to appeal to me. I got on the Internet to research about Female Domination and I was disappointed and a little disturbed about much of what I saw. Thankfully, I found your site and a few others that approached this subject in a way that appealed to me. I plan on doing your analysis on him later this week and I hope it will give us the boost we need to get started in our new arrangement.