Different Loving or Perversion? Questions about D&S, B&D and S&M

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I applaud you for having a worshipful attitude toward your girlfriend and for denying your needs in preferring her needs. However, if you truly want to submit to her and if you want for the both of you to experience the intense power of a true power exchange, you will eventually have to switch roles. Some of the most dominant women that openly practice this lifestyle started out as the submissive顺从 — willing to obey. The reason for this is because their self-image would not allow them to view themselves as dominant or allow them to enjoy being dominant. Some women are drawn to D&S for reasons they totally do not understand but once within the lifestyle, they can only see themselves as the submissive顺从 — willing to obey. There are psychological reasons for this such as a longing for a strong father figure or the overwhelming feeling of being thrust into a stressful career that deep inside they resent. However, many of these women will eventually give being the dominant a try and once their dominant nature is released and practiced, there is no turning them back. They usually go on to become very powerful and skilled Dominant women.