Different Loving or Perversion? Questions about D&S, B&D and S&M

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Your challenge is to seduce and draw out your girlfriend's dominant nature while you are yielding to her current desires. My advice would be to start encouraging her to be a switch with you. You dominate her one time and then suggest that she take a turn in using the cane on you the next time. Encourage her to experience with her dominant side as the two of you rotate between being on the giving and the receiving end of the cane and other D&S activities. You will be walking a fine line here because as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, you must always obey her wishes but you still need to gently encourage her to explore the other side of her personality.

If she is like a lot of women, she will eventually discover that she enjoys being in charge. Allow her to make the decisions outside of your D&S play and allow her to experience the power that comes from being in charge. Given her submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires at this time, she may or may not take to it right away but eventually her previously dormant dominant nature will break forth and she will gladly take charge. Down the road, you should notice that she enjoys being the giver during the D&S play better than the receiver and she will want to be the Dom more and more often. When this happens, you should encourage her to be the full time Dom, as being a switch should always be a temporary thing until both people come into their true roles and natures.