How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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The first time I was exposed to this lifestyle, I thought it to be strange and perverted. I attended a meeting of a local D&S group to write a paper for a class I was taking. I went in viewing these people as being sexually dysfunctional. However, I soon learned that most of these people were healthy and normal. People from all walks of life, religious backgrounds, and professions were members of this group. Now I will confess that there are extremes that people go to with D&S that is not healthy but that is the same with all things. Eating is not a negative habit but taken to extremes it can be unhealthy. The same goes for a person's sexuality. From my years of studying and living this lifestyle, I can tell you that your husband's desires are not perverted. As a matter of fact, they are very common among men. A leading Psychology periodical did a massive study about men's sexual fantasies and the number one fantasy was to be sexually dominated by a powerful woman. It is the number one sexual desire among men living in our society. Perversion is defined as that which is outside the sexual normal. D&S in very much within the normal of people's sexual desires.