How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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So I would challenge you to view this lifestyle in a different light. Instead of viewing it as you fulfilling his strange fantasy, I challenge you to view it as you assuming the authority position and using that position to get your needs fulfilled and met. It truly can be a win win situation. By taking the reigns of the marriage you will be fulfilling his deep rooted submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires and at the same time you will be allowing him to fulfill your needs and desires. If you don't want him to polish your toenails or your floors, then don't. Have him serve you in a way that is pleasing to you. Not to him, not to me, or anyone else. How can he please you? What I tell couples when I counsel them is this. Sit down and have an open and honest discussion about your needs and desires. Your husband may need this lifestyle for the additional motivation that he needs to do those extra chores, to be romantic in the way you desire, and to please you.