How To Get Started: Questions asked by the Novice Dominant Woman:

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The most important thing is that each couple must keep the lines of communications open, as honesty and openness are crucial in a female domination relationship. A woman needs to be open minded to explore new things as her submissive顺从 — willing to obey shares with her his deepest desires. It is all about negotiating and fulfillment. What touches his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature? Does he have a leather fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing? If so, then wear it. Does he have a foot or a boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing? Does he crave whippings or spankings? Does he enjoy the helpless feeling of being in bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained? Find out what draws out his submission and do these things to him. Then take his submission and channel it into the service of you. Use your dominance to draw out more of his submission and than use that to get your needs met and fulfilled. It is like a dance. Get a man aroused and submissive顺从 — willing to obey than have him serve you (massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, oral sex, chores, etc). Keep him aroused and denied most of the time or his servitude will wane. Allow him some sexual relief but make sure that he understands that you decide when and how. No more than once a week at the most for him and preferable only once every other week. You, on the other hand, should receive as many orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax as you desire. Are you starting to see why women love this lifestyle?