Library Elise Sutton

The Black Dominant Woman

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Today it is thrilling to see a woman of color promoting both her gender and her race as reasons she is superior. Alas, it wasn’t always so.

I have been serving women of color for over 25 years and to look back over my many years of servitude is to appreciate the seismic changes in the role of the Dominant Black Female in both the fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing culture and the larger culture too.

As a submissive顺从 — willing to obey white male driven from deep within to serve a Black Female, it took me awhile in my young adulthood to come to grips with my attraction to women of color. Her lips so full, her dark skin so beautiful and of course her awesome derriere, a true artistic sculpture of nature. A woman’s ebony hue would catch my attention a block away. Before I could know what she looked like, my eyes were drawn to her dark skin. But as I dwelled on it, I realized that my attraction to women of color went deeper than just a sexual attraction. The black woman had this authoritarian quality that rendered me helpless. She was beautiful on the outside but she also had this dominant persona.

Once all this meshed, I knew what my submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature demanded: servitude to the Woman of African descent, the African American, or the Afro-Caribbean Female.