Library Elise Sutton

The Black Dominant Woman

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The Black Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner is prominent and proud today but there was a time, not all that long ago, when the woman of color actually hid her race in ads and promotions. As I began my journey of seeking a Black Woman to serve, I found out this wasn’t so simple. Like so many other submissive顺从 — willing to obey men, I would buy FemDom女性支配 — female domination magazines such as ”Aggressive Women” and I would read the many ads from professional and lifestyle Mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. But there was no way to tell whether a Domme女主人 — a dominant woman was black. Most ads that had pictures were of Caucasian Women and the ads that did not have an accompanying picture would not specify the race of the Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. She was out there, but the Black Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner was hard to find.

In the late 70’s when I found a Black Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner to session with, Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner Pearl, she demanded that I call her Black Pearl, as her race was a big part of her domination sessions, especially when she dominated white males. But she never advertised as being a Black Woman. Only after months of sessioning with her did I ask her why she didn’t advertise herself as Black Pearl.

She told me that too many white subs顺从者 — a submissive person were afraid to serve a Black Female, and for that reason, most Black Dommes女主人 — a dominant woman would not mention their race in their ads. Once the white sub顺从者 — a submissive person arrived and discovered that the Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner was indeed Black, a few would leave out of fear, but most would stay to be dominated by the Ebony Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman, and most would return and become regulars.