Real Life Stories - December 2007

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I think this is quite normal and natural and cannot imagine having sex if she was not right into it. Her developing dominance is intriguing and also a bit scary – for example, only this morning she said to me “Hmm – I think I need TWO husbands, you know – don’t you think that would be a good idea? You’re so good around the house and with the kids but we need someone handy. Plus you could compare notes on me! Wouldn’t that be fun?”

Of course she was only joking (I think), but at the same time if I’d imagined two or three years ago how our relationship would develop I could never have guessed how it has developed so sometimes I think her dominant streak is stronger than I would ever have dreamed. Thanks for your site and your words of wisdom.

Elise’s response:

Mark, you are indeed a blessed man to be married to such an in-charge woman who loves you. And she is indeed blessed to be married to such a dedicated and devoted husband.

Society is changing and women are embracing the dominant role within personal relationships, and as your own marriage signifies, a relationship where the woman is in charge and the man happily submits, the fruits thereof are harmonious and joyous.