Real Life Stories - December 2018

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I will be grateful for any help You can provide. I express my gratitude and most sincere respect to You.

Elise’s Response:

Ok, a few items here. First of all, and this has nothing to do with you personally Marc, but I am way over men writing me letters where they always capitalize references to the female, such as She and Her. I get it, you men want to show respect to women and I give you all credit for your humble attitude and your recognition of the fact that women are the superior gender. However, it makes for difficult reading. I often translate these letters into a more readable format.

Now to the content of your story. I am not going to answer your five questions but instead I will sum up your problem. You need to realize that being a submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband is about serving your wife and making her happy. So what if she wants to iron your shirts? It is her way of showing you that she loves you. A dominant woman is allowed to do nice things for her husband. If you work all day and she lives a life of leisure, what is wrong with her doing some of the cooking if that is what she enjoys doing? Some women actually like cooking. There is a big difference between a woman who feels pressured to do the housework because of a man’s expectations and a woman who does it because she has the time and she wants to do it.