Real Life Stories - December 2018

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Marc, you have strived to make your wife’s life happy and fulfilled and you strive to treat her as a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine. You can only control your motivation and your actions. You cannot make her into your fantasy. It sounds like she is a lovely woman and you are indeed blessed to be married to her. You said that she dominates you in the bedroom. Who cares if it is light, at least she has embraced some form of D&S. You said that she assigns you tasks like running errands for her. You said that she lives a life of leisure and expects you to pamper her with massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it and nice vacations. And you said that she makes most of the decisions. That sounds like a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage to me. It might not be your fantasy but it is a marriage based on loving female authority.

Therefore, my advice is to relax and be thankful for your wife. Have fun with her, enjoy her for who she is and don’t fret over what she isn’t. Keep on serving her, keep on striving to improve on submitting to her and above all, never take her for granted. The more you submit, the more she will be inclined to be dominant. It may not come up to the level of your fantasies but your reality sounds like a wonderful marriage. Be thankful for that. Best wishes!

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