Real Stories - Entries for December 2010 (Best of series)

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You are a better husband thanks to your wife’s willingness to wield the cane of correction. And I am sure her sister sees the positive results and that is why she is perfectly Ok with it. Your relationship is not about a woman abusing her husband. It is about two adults who love each other and who meet each other’s needs. You need to be disciplined by your wife and she has come to enjoy wielding the cane of correction. It is a loving act, it is a nurturing experience and it is a healthy exchange between two people who love each other.

There are two other points to your story that I would like to focus on, because they are important. First, the fact that your wife gets to decide when and how she will discipline you is an important component to the success of your discipline sessions. For a man to thrust upon his wife a whip and to make demands on her that she whip him when he is in the mood, that is not female domination. That is classic topping from below. A discipline session will always be the most beneficial and powerful when the woman is in total control, and that includes deciding when and how it will take place.

The other important point is how you handle your daughter. You make sure that she is never exposed to your lifestyle. You make sure that she is out of the home and that there is no chance that she will happen upon one of your discipline sessions. That is common sense and I applaud you for taking those precautions.