The Psychoanalysis of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about Elise's FemDom女性支配 — female domination Procedures

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A. Good question. What I said about not flaunting the female domination lifestyle to others and keeping your sex life private, was in response to a question about us coming out of the closet. I don't want to have female domination parades where we march in the streets with our men on leashes牵引绳 — a lead clipped to a collar for the world to see. I don't want us to be foolish and to proclaim to our family members, friends, and co-workers what our sex lives are about. I don't want us to openly expose our lifestyle and sexuality to children who are innocent and too immature to understand. That is what I was talking about.

To go to a mall wearing leather, making our husbands walk behind us and carry our purchases, forbidding him to speak, and humiliating him in front of other adult women is not the same thing. By doing this we are sending out small, hidden signals to others about what we are and what we believe about female superiority. We are doing this for two reasons. First, it is a power rush to wear leather and dominate our husbands in public. Second, it may open the door for us to share the female domination lifestyle with other women. I don't encourage you to bring up the subject, unless asked. How will other women know that it is possible to have a well behaved and obedient husband, unless we occasionally go out in public to show him off. Now I would be totally against leading him around the mall by a dog collar项圈 — a band worn around the neck and leash牵引绳 — a lead clipped to a collar.