Real Life Stories - Entries for February 2009

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• We have joined a BDSM group in our city, and have made a lot of new friends that understand and accept our dominant/submissive顺从 — willing to obey relationship. Of most benefit to me has been the friendship of an experienced, like-minded dominant woman who has helped and advised me when I’ve needed it. She recently assisted me in a special birthday ‘wrap’ for Ronnie.

• I have become much more comfortable in my own skin. I can talk about sex openly for the first time in my life, and in asking for what I want, I invariably get it!

But a good relationship requires more than great sex to sustain it. What makes our relationship work is recognition of our complementary roles; open and honest communication; a well-developed sense of humor; and a shared desire to continually grow and discover new levels of intimacy and trust. I hope my story will resonate with some of your readers and that they ultimately find a path that leads them to this kind of fulfillment.

Elise’s Response:

Thank you for sharing your wonderful relationship with me. It is a beautiful and loving relationship and I am happy for the both of you. You have eloquently outlined why women love this lifestyle and why more women need to embrace it. It is satisfying and fulfilling for both the dominant woman and the submissive顺从 — willing to obey man.