Real Life Stories - Entries For February 2012

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Carl, thanks for sharing your experiences with “time-outs”. Ashley’s deprivation chamber is a kind of time-out room. It can also be used as a play-room (a mini-dungeon) but when she locks her husband in there, be it for short or long periods of time, it is a place where he is forced to focus on his wife and his submission. It is a place where the other cares of the world and his other interests are not allowed to enter.

But as you correctly point out, one does not have to build a rubber room in order to incorporate time-outs. Corner time can be very effective, as can kneeling time or any form of bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained. The rubber room makes it easier for the submissive顺从 — willing to obey because he has no choice once he is locked in his chamber. But corner time or kneeling time requires more mental discipline on the part of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey and thus it requires more of a sacrifice from the submissive顺从 — willing to obey.

Regardless, what matters most is the male’s attitude once he is freed from the chamber or from the corner or from the time-out. If he will allow himself to surrender to the punishment and if he will allow himself to enter into subspace by casting aside other thoughts in favor of thoughts focused on his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner, he will be in that submissive顺从 — willing to obey frame of mind once he is freed. Then he can serve his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner with a clear mind and a renewed commitment.