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In actuality, a man that gets regular sex will produce more testosterone to replenish what his body has expelled. The denied man will produce less testosterone. So it could be argued that a man that is regularly denied will, over time, develop a lesser sex drive and have a slighter need to relieve himself. That does not mean the sex drive will go away, it just means that his body will adjust to his denied condition.

Your husband is still very young and you’ve only been married a few years. He masturbates because he is a man, pure and simple. Keep up with his training and don’t accept his excuses and he will adjust to his status, and be the better man for it. Best wishes!

From Debbie B:

Hi Elise! I wanted to thank you for your marvelous website. I also wanted to share how I dominate my husband. To get right to the sine qua non, I work my hubby to death, well not literally because hard work is good for a man, but I have become his taskmistress and much to his chagrin, I am creative and cruel.

My husband introduced me to Femdom女性支配 — female domination and he showed me your site and gave me your book. To be honest, I was not interested in spanking him or wearing fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits for him. I also wasn’t all that interested in being pampered by him. I am not that kind of woman and I can bathe myself and dress myself. However, when I read your book, the one area that interested me was having the husband do the housework. That was my dominant trigger.