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Q. Elise, I have a question about safe words安全词 — a word that means stop. Are they really a must? I get into some really intense play with my husband and I like to take him to new levels and new heights of submission. It always seems that just when we are entering into a new realm of play or a place that is very intense, he uses his safe word安全词 — a word that means stop. This frustrates me because I want to go further. I am not always convinced that he is enduring as much as he can. He has gone as far as he wants to go during a scene but it is not as far as I want to go.

It seems to me that by allowing him a safe word安全词 — a word that means stop, I am allowing him to control the play. I want to always control the play and I want to take him further than he thinks that he can go. I would never injure him or harm him. I feel that I should be able to use my judgement on what is too far and not rely on him to signal me through a safe word安全词 — a word that means stop. Your thoughts on this please.

A. I understand your thinking on this one and I agree with you to a point. A safe word安全词 — a word that means stop is an absolute must during the beginning of a D&S relationship. You are still feeling each other out and you are discovering his levels of submission as well as his threshold for pain. You are discovering what he responds to and what he doesn't. During this beginning period and this exploration period, a safe word安全词 — a word that means stop is a must because it allows him to signal to you when he thinks he has reached his limits of play.