Adult Playtime: Questions about Specific FemDom女性支配 — female domination Activities

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Q. Elise, my husband's submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires revolve around him wanting me to use him as a piece of furniture. He likes to be my footstool, or my chair, or my rug, or even my clothes rack. He shows me pictures off the Internet where women use men as inanimate objects and he asks me to do this to him. I try to incorporate this activity within our play sessions and even some within our everyday life. In the beginning, I enjoyed doing this to him as it gave me a powerful feeling of control over him and thus satisfied a part of my dominant nature. However, over time this activity has lost most of the thrill for me and I really don't get anything out of treating him like an object. Yet, I can tell this activity takes him to subspace and thus it makes him more eager to submit to me when we go back to our normal everyday roles and responsibilities.

Perhaps if I understood more about why he desires to be a piece of human furniture I would be willing to do this more often to him. I've asked him to explain to me what he gets out of it and why it takes him to subspace but thus far, he has been unable to put what he feels into adequate words. I was hoping you could address this topic in your forum.