Dress for Success: Questions about Fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing Clothing

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As far as props go, a whip is only a prop if you don't use it. But a whip is a tool in the hands of a woman who knows how to use it. If you use your cat 'o nine to administer that sting on your man, then it is not a prop but a valuable tool in the art of D&S. But to answer your premise, of course a woman does not need to use tools, toys or D&S gear. Attitude is the key and a woman can dominate a man with her looks, her aura, her voice, and her sexuality. The tools and the toys are only there to assist.