Real Stories - Female Domination through Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose
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While I love meeting other dominant women and hearing how far they grow in their dominant natures, I also believe that a successful FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship needs to be a win/win. I am sure your boyfriend loves being treated cruelly by you on some emotional and psychological level. However, a woman can go too far. You should care for him on some level and not want to cause him continual physical and mental anguish.
It is best to use his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature to motivate him to serve you and your needs. It is Ok to be cruel to him at times if that is what stirs his submission. But there is a fine line between erotic abuse and destructive behavior. Please be careful and keep your sadistic desires under control.
If he enjoys working and that gives him some means of self worth, why take that away from him? Allow him some hobbies and some downtime. Human beings need that. He is attached to you on an emotional level and I am sure he wants to be your servant forever. It is your responsibility to balance your dominance with some love. It is Ok for you to have intense and wild scenes where you humiliate him and crush his ego. But be there the next day to go to dinner with and to do fun stuff as well. We are social creatures and need more than just D&S in our lives. Larry included.