Real Life Stories - Entries for January 2012

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All our assets, including both cars are in my name. Donnie's salary goes into my account and I give him a small allowance. We discuss things, but all the major financial and domestic decisions are mine. I keep him chaste most of the time. It's tough for him, but it makes him so much more attentive and he realizes it's best for us. I made it plain when we met that I have the right to cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers him, but now I can't imagine ever doing it. However, I felt he needed to understand from the beginning that my freedom and control in that area is essential to me. From my experience, total honesty is the only way build a close bond.

Thanks so much for teaching us the way, Elise. I've learned so much from you. I didn't mean to gloat, but I just wanted to tell you about my husband, who never ceases to surprise me. Thanks.

Elise’s Response:

Renee, it sounds like you have a great man there. You should be proud of him. He is a great example to all men, not just because he stood up for you in public, but because he submits to you at home. He is not threatened by a strong woman and that is a sign that he is comfortable in his own skin.