Real Life Stories - Entries for January 2014

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Our world is full of examples of men being unfaithful to women in the context of a romantic relationship. Oprah Winfrey does a program almost once a month on the subject of why men cheat on their wives or girlfriends. If men who cheat are interviewed on these shows, they will often say that what they did was wrong, but they were acting on an impulse that is distinctively “female” the masculine urge to have more than one sexual partner.

When I see these men interviewed, I realize why female-led relationships are so important. When the woman is the head of a relationship, the man will always be faithful to her. I know this is true in my case. I have been married for 27 years and my focus continues to be on my dominant wife--it always will be. Her dominance and my submission keep me joyfully faithful to her.

When I do my chores around the house, run to get something from the store for her, or make love to her just the way she likes it, I become more and more consumed with my love for her. Pleasing her is what gives me pleasure and when my wife is happy—I’m happy. I know that being unfaithful would NOT please my wife--so how could I ever do it? I just wish the men interviewed on Oprah would get with the program and submit to their wives. They (and their wives or girlfriends) would be much happier.

Ms. Sutton, you often mention “Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face” as one element of a wife-led relationship. This activity has provided many benefits to my marriage. Please let me explain.