Real Life Stories - Entries for July 2008 (Best of Elise)

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Sandy, thank you so much for sharing those very personal details about your marriage. Your husband sounds like a special man and you were able to bring out his sensitive nature through your willingness to dominate him. I bet you never thought you would see him so open and so emotionally vulnerable to you. That is the power of FemDom女性支配 — female domination. Now the two of you are free to bond on so many special levels. Now the barriers are down.

You were naturally hesitant due to traditional societal expectations. You and your husband are at an age where it is not always easy to embrace a new lifestyle. People get set in their ways and it takes tremendous courage to take that step of faith and embrace a lifestyle that flies against what you were taught your entire life. And that is why you struggled with this decision. You were excited about the possibilities but that little voice in your head kept saying “men are supposed to be in-charge. That is what I have been taught.” But you could not deny the power you felt. You could not deny that dominant woman within who wanted to be freed. And you could not deny that this is what your husband wanted and needed.