Real Life Stories - June/July 2016

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Thank you again for your great site. I would encourage all you ladies out there, vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink or not, to take charge of your home. You don’t have to wear leather and carry a whip to have your hubby under your thumb. Sometimes all it takes is a little black cocktail dress and a nice pair of shoes. :-)

Elise’s Response:

Lisa, your story just is further proof that if a man wants a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship, he needs to submit to his wife on her terms. Female Domination is all about a man serving a woman. It is not about a woman becoming her husband’s fantasy. It is about a man truly dedicating himself to his wife.

Your husband did just that and you were able to embrace the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle on your terms. And you found that you love it. What woman wouldn’t? Where men fail is when they try to be top from below by expecting the woman to be the fulfillment of their fantasies. But when a man shows a woman the benefits, or in your case when a woman agrees to FemDom女性支配 — female domination as long as it is on her terms, a woman’s dominant nature is awakened and eventually, she may very well desire to try some D&S in the bedroom. That is what happened with you and now you enjoy the D&S as much if not more than your husband, but you keep it limited, which makes it special.

I congratulate you and I hope your story will be a great example to other couples. Take care!

From Sandi P: