Real Life Stories - June/July 2016

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My house is neat as a pin, my yard is immaculate, my husband is fit and trim and I have never been happier. I have teased him that I might have to take a lover so I can take exotic vacations while he stays home doing his chores. I’m not sure how he would handle that and I really don’t care. If I would find someone that I was attracted to, I would not hesitate to make my husband into a cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers. However, I am not actively looking. It’s just not a priority of mine. If it happens, great, if not, I am content with my vibrator震动器 — a toy that buzzes.

To conclude, you can have the whips and chains and the fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits and all the S&M. That is not for me and I have found out that all a woman really needs to keep her husband under her thumb is her will to do so. My only regret is that I didn’t do this fifteen years ago.

Elise’s Response:

Debbie, as you have discovered, there are many advantages to the female domination lifestyle, especially for the woman, but also for the man as female domination can inject excitement into the mundane tasks of life like household chores.

You asked what does your husband get out of this? Your brand of domination stirs his submission to the place where it gives him the energy and motivation to do all those chores for you. While he is serving you by being your house slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience, this gives him submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment and to him that is as good (if not better) than sex.