Real Life Stories - Entries for June 2009

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From Cindy B:

Hi, Elise. I wanted to share how female domination has improved one part my marriage. Actually, it has improved many areas of my marriage but it seemed that my husband would bitch and complain most often about how long it took me to get ready when we would go out for the evening.

Prior to discovering your site and the female domination lifestyle, I would read a host of relationship books and articles. A common male complaint was how long it took their wives to get ready and how frustrated they would become having to wait. Never mind the fact that we are making ourselves beautiful for them. The male nature is an impatient nature.

What men need to realize is that most of us women do not know for sure how long it’s going to take so when we say we will be five minutes, a man should not take us so literally. I guess this is part of the Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars stereotype, and there is some truth to this. We are different however I feel that Venus is a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine, am I not right? Thus what right does a man have to bitch about how long his Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine takes to make herself beautiful?

My husband would become so frustrated and it would end up ruining our entire evening on many occasions. We would be all excited about going out but he would develop an attitude when my five minutes turned into a half hour and I had to rush, I always felt rushed. Now, thanks to female domination, I have rectified the situation.