Real Life Stories - June 2010

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Now to the content of your story. I am not going to answer your five questions but instead I will sum up your problem. You need to realize that being a submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband is about serving your wife and making her happy. So what if she wants to iron your shirts? It is her way of showing you that she loves you. A dominant woman is allowed to do nice things for her husband. If you work all day and she lives a life of leisure, what is wrong with her doing some of the cooking if that is what she enjoys doing? Some women actually like cooking. There is a big difference between a woman who feels pressured to do the housework because of a man’s expectations and a woman who does it because she has the time and she wants to do it.

Marc, you have strived to make your wife’s life happy and fulfilled and you strive to treat her as a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine. You can only control your motivation and your actions. You cannot make her into your fantasy. It sounds like she is a lovely woman and you are indeed blessed to be married to her. You said that she dominates you in the bedroom. Who cares if it is light, at least she has embraced some form of D&S. You said that she assigns you tasks like running errands for her. You said that she lives a life of leisure and expects you to pamper her with massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it and nice vacations. And you said that she makes most of the decisions. That sounds like a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage to me. It might not be your fantasy but it is a marriage based on loving female authority.