Real Life Stories - June 2010

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I try to obey my Wife as best as I can. I express my love in many ways (massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, little presents, flowers...). Also, while I was dating Her, I soon introduced Her explicitly to my desires to be dominated by Her. One of my first SMS to Her was to tell Her that I wanted to live to serve and worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service Her. She answered that She was flattered. Soon after, I spoke about Her being a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine and I being Her servant. She quickly picked up the words and we've been using them ever since. However, I suspect She has always used those words more to get me excited than out of a conviction that She is indeed a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine. In fact, Her domination has always been light, and mostly confined to the bedroom.

She does dominate me to a certain extent: I am expected to give Her daily foot massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, She takes almost always the initiative in our sex life, She sometimes sends me on errands for Her, and She makes the key decisions in our relationship, without sometimes taking my advice into account. She has also expected me to take Her on beautiful trips abroad. Above all, She quit Her job soon after our marriage, and took advantage of Her new leisure time to do things She did not have enough time to do before, like going to the swimming pool with Her Female friends, and taking art classes. I feel very proud that I am working hard to make it possible for Her to enjoy this life.