Real Stories - June 2014

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Whereas most Doms that I read about seem to use threat of force or temptation of sex to control the sub顺从者 — a submissive person, I primarily use shame to keep him in line. When I impose a rule, I explain it to him clearly and I demand that he carry it out. He tries to be a good husband and he feels very ashamed when he fails. A lot of Doms that I have corresponded with say that I am cold and cruel for not being intimate with my husband. I disagree. He is free to divorce me anytime and keep his paycheck. I don't forbid him orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax as long as he masturbates in private. I could make him wear a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device and deny him permanently like some women do but I don't care what he does when I am not around. I suspect that he gets more orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax than a husband who may be intimate with his wife but who is also denied orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax, which seems to take place in many FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationships. I believe that my husband gets a sense of belonging and purpose in life by being married to me. I would have never married him under any other circumstance, as he was the one who approached me.

So that is why I would not be able to do the more intimate things that are contained in your procedures. My husband is my submissive顺从 — willing to obey and nothing more. We have had a Female Domination relationship from the beginning. I didn't even know about D&S or FemDom女性支配 — female domination when I met my husband. It was just natural to control him from the very start and I've been doing it now for eleven years.

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