Real Stories - June/July 2020

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She discovered your site about two years ago and she bought your books shortly after it was published. I don’t really know how she happened across your site but she has been a big fan. I knew about female domination but I am not what you call a hard wired submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. I have always liked confident women and I have always encouraged my wife in her career. But I was not one of those men who obsessed since puberty about women with whips and I would not have classified myself as submissive顺从 — willing to obey.

My wife read about the female domination relationships on your site and she says that something clicked inside. She wanted to know that kind of power and control over a man. When she first discussed this with me, I told her I could never submit like that because I value my independence. I have been a self-made man all my life and while I was open to trying some “kink性癖 — an unusual sexual taste” in the bedroom, I wanted nothing to do with being her submissive顺从 — willing to obey. We then had the worst argument of our marriage when she asked me if I could accept her seeking another man to be her submissive顺从 — willing to obey. Although she promised me that there would be no sexual contact, I about flipped out at her suggestion. I guess it was my pride but there was no way any wife of mine would have another man in her life, even if no sex was involved.