Real Life Stories - March 2008

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He has had to overcome a resistance in himself to give in to me even though there is no doubt he is truly submissive顺从 — willing to obey. That male ego has a lot to account for!! He used to tell me that he found it hard to accept me as his Dominant in vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink life, and too easily would snap at me at times, and just be disrespectful. Back in the summer of 2007, our Professional Domme女主人 — a dominant woman gave him a severe punishment session to make him understand how totally unacceptable that behavior is. Although he is much improved, it is still a work in progress.

Yes, of course, life can be difficult at times but he NEVER has the right to take that out on me. I have also had to learn, and I am still learning, what it is to be a Dominant. I have had to assert myself, tell him, when necessary, that actually "I know best now!" and see through his manipulation and basically be prepared to punish him. We have a weekly training session when he always receives 40 hard spanks and more if he has misbehaved (with a variety of implements)!