Real Life Stories - March 2010 (Best of Elise series)

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I’ve never actually “come out” about my submissive顺从 — willing to obey feelings to my wife and sometimes wonder if I should. In any event, it is obvious to her that she is in charge and as she put it, she is “the one who holds the reins”. We sit down once a week and go over our finances and I have to reconcile our budget for her, which she controls, and I have to account to her for what I spend. I need to do this as I’ve been shown to be a bit rash with my spending habits in the past – so my salary goes into her bank account and all the accounts and credit cards are in her name.

At home I do the greater majority of domestic chores and I would do all of them if requested, without question. She uses her sexuality (and she is extremely attractive) quite naturally to reinforce my behaviour with light kisses on the lips as a reward and I’ve noticed we often have sex only when I’ve been particularly hard-working around the house.

Whilst I guess I have been practicing what many refer to as “stealth submission”, I wanted to share my experience with you and other readers to know that this actually does have positive effects over a period of time and there’s really no telling how far my wife will take her dominant instincts, although I can't imagine her putting on a domme女主人 — a dominant woman outfit and brandishing a whip (not that I'd mind!) she is very much in control in the bedroom and always decides when we make love.