Real Life Stories - March 2012

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The fantasy of cuckolding took you to subspace so you need to focus on what it is about cuckolding that excites you and you need to meditate on that. If nothing else, dwell on the thought that your wife is expressing her liberation and she is dominating you by humiliating you through cuckolding. Such thoughts should excite you. If not, then why on earth did you agree to becoming her cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers? There must be something there. Your wife is demanding your submission in this area so concentrate on that, and not on the skin color of her date.

Again, you have every right (and responsibility) to discuss this with your wife. Communication is a must. But approach her with the mindset that you want to put her needs ahead of your own. Let her know your feelings and than trust her judgement. Your wife needs to be mindful of your needs, as you are mindful of hers. If you both approach it from that standpoint, you will be able to work through this and come to a mutually satisfying experience. Best wishes.

From Tanya H: