Library Elise Sutton

Real Life Stories - Entries for March 2005

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Sadly, you are correct in that not enough women have fully comprehended the benefits of FemDom女性支配 — female domination. I hear from women who want their husbands to submit to them but they are unwilling to learn the proper techniques or skills of D&S. Not that a woman has to know oriental rope bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained or how to use a single tail whip to be a successful Dom. But a woman does need to take the time to find out her man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers and than she needs to use those triggers to her advantage and for both of their benefits.

There are too many women who want the rewards without taking the time to plant the seeds or cultivating the fertile soil of the man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. I recommend weekly play sessions and some women think that this is for the man’s pleasure and benefit since he desires it. But it is not for his benefit but rather for the woman’s benefit.

Yes, I believe a man should submit to his woman’s desires, even if she is not willing to incorporate D&S in the bedroom. The man exists to serve his Queen and to obey her. A man will have more submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment by obeying the woman in his life and by serving the woman in this life, than if he is dominated in the bedroom but does not serve her outside the bedroom.