Real Life Stories - Entries for March 2005

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In the February Q&A entries, there was a discussion about the show “Desperate Housewives” and how there is a FemDom女性支配 — female domination story-line with some of the characters. I pointed out how such scenes offer the opportunity for a husband to bring up the subject with his wife. Naturally the opposite is true as well if the wife wants to bring up the subject with her husband. Sadly, many people are afraid to be honest with the person they have chosen to make their life partner. If you can’t discuss sexuality openly with the person you are intimate with, than are you really intimate? After all, intimacy is about so much more than just kissing and having sex. Intimacy is forming a bond of trust and openness where you can share your innermost being with someone and know for certain that your partner will accept you and love you. Thus, many couples have sex but few couples are intimate.

Your willingness to have an open discussion with your husband has opened the door for the two of you to explore this side of your nature and you both are beginning to realize that FemDom女性支配 — female domination is meeting important needs in both of your lives. Your husband loves being in the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role but his male pride has been a hindrance. That is where the whole “good girl, bad girl” mindset comes from. He wants to be married to a good girl because he cares about what others will think of you, and ultimately him. That is a component of the male ego.