Library Elise Sutton

Real Life Stories - Entries for March 2007

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From Danielle H:

Ms. Sutton, I am a dominant woman - I have known for most of my life that I have some dominant tendencies. I always imagined being married to a man who would obey me, serve me, and accept my punishments when he misbehaved. In essence, a slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience, although only recently have I begun to use that particular word.

For most of my life, I never knew that there were people who actually lived this way. I discovered the "lifestyle" a couple of years into college, when a friend, who was involved in a BDSM club, was telling me about it one late night. I didn't say much, but was almost sick to my stomach, I was so excited - not that I wanted to jump right in and join, but just at the thought that all of the fantasies I'd had, people actually DID this! I literally didn't sleep for days.

I finally got up the courage to ask my friend more, and she invited me to come to a meeting, and even to watch a "scene" between her and one of her slaves奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. I was fascinated, but it wasn't really what I was looking for. I explained that I was looking more for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with a man who would submit to me. Immediately, she said "I've got the guy for you," and said that she knew a guy who had been into the scene, but now was looking for something like I wanted.