Real Life Stories - Entries for May 2010

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I have considerable hope that this new power to control my erections and orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax will strike a cord with my wife. Although she has always had the more dominant personality and I've always been the shy and naturally submissive顺从 — willing to obey one, prior to now, female domination is not something that she has ever entertained. However, with my chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm cage securely in place, I've never been more hopeful.

Elise’s Response:

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and observations about the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device. It is usually the psychological aspects of being in a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device that men struggle with, more so than the physical restrictions of the device. A man is accustomed to being able to touch himself at will and all of a sudden, the pleasure that he so takes for granted is now gone, and he is at the mercy of his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. Such a dynamic is more profound on a man’s state of mind than it is on his body. The cage might pinch the flesh now and again but it is the psychological bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained, that he no longer can pleasure himself, that is the real bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained of a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device.

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