Real Stories - May 2014

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I have always been picky when it comes to men and because of that, I was engaged a number of times before I finally settled on my husband. We were both twenty-four when we were married and I was still a virgin, at least in the traditional sense of the word. I did engage in oral sex with a few men but I was determined to save myself for that one special man. Now that I look back on it, I guess I was the ultimate tease. I kind of dominated men and got them to do what I wanted by being the tease. I didn't know a thing about female domination but I learned at a young age that I could manipulate men and get what I wanted out of them.

The first five years of my marriage were what I expected. I enjoyed being the newlywed bride and our traditional roles as husband and wife. My husband was very good to me and he spoiled me. I was a career woman and I enjoyed my career. Life was good, at least so I thought. That all changed six years into our marriage when my loving husband decided that he needed to share with me a hidden part of his personality. He told me that he had been suppressing this urge within him but that it was getting so strong that he was being tempted in areas that concerned him. I tried to be understanding and I encouraged him to open up. I told him he could trust me but I was not ready for what he told me.