Real Stories - May 2014

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Your husband could have seen Pro Doms behind your back but he chose to be honest with you. He was struggling with these desires and he was afraid he was going to fail in his wedding vows. I admire him for his courage. I would have rather that he took a more subtle approach and attempted to introduce you to this lifestyle in stages, at a slower pace, rather than unloading it all on you at once. That was not wise and it caused you emotional pain. Nevertheless, you were able to work through you challenges and you are reaping the benefits today. Stress is uncomfortable but stress produces change. You weathered the stress and have blossomed into a beautiful, dominant female.

I also agree with the advice your dominant friend gave you. To the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, he wants the female to be selfish. This is the one lifestyle where it is a giving act to be a taker. In order to stroke those submissive顺从 — willing to obey chords within the nature of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man, it takes a woman being selfish. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature needs that dominant energy to react to. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey male admires the selfish woman. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey male enjoys being with a selfish woman. For it is that selfishness that radiates dominance, confidence and liberation that the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male admires and loves. Therefore, by being selfish you are giving the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male a gift. Not to mention, that by nature most women enjoy being selfish and are quite capable of being selfish.