Real Stories - Entries for May 2019

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Having sex while knowing what was coming diverted my attention a lot, so I tended to last longer. I got good at holding off and using everything I could think of besides intercourse in order to delay the inevitable. I know my wife liked that part of the arrangement.

It worked really well, and in about 6 months, I was at my long term target. That success convinced her (with my encouragement) to incorporate discipline as a regular part of our marriage. We started by talking about the “whys” and “when’s” and settled on a one year trial, with quarterly reviews. Now after more than two years, discipline is a regular part of our lives. We found the variety in poor behavior and habits is so broad that having specific spankable offences didn’t work, so we settled on her having the authority to punish as she sees fit, when she sees fit, for any reason she feels warrants it. She does not abuse the authority, but no longer hesitates to use it.