Real Life Stories - Entries for July 2003

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Her motives were pure and non-sexual but she needed to settle these unresolved issues with her son. I can guarantee you this, your husband use to fantasize about being dominated by his mother when he was an adolescent and he felt guilty about that as well. Her discipline session with him relieved them both of the guilt they had been carrying and that is why it was such a powerful and emotional experience. Your husband got to surrender to his Mother's dominant nature and with his wife there to watch, it relieved him of any guilt. His mother got to apologize for the divorce and this brought her a freedom from the guilt she had been carrying.

The discipline session was the Mother accepting her son's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature and it was her giving him her blessing to the kind of marriage he had chosen. This was a major relief to your husband and now they are both free to pursue their true natures, unashamed. I wish all people could experience that kind of freedom but it is rare because people are held back by fear and insecurities.